Becoming the objective observer is a very useful tool, if you want to gather control of your thoughts and emotions instead of existing in a feedback loop of your various assorted wounds. The trick is to stay conscious, calm and not be influenced by your real or imagined wounds and fears. The goal is to view the BIGGER picture, the entire chain of events leading up to your sense of being victimized. That is the way to understand the cause and effect, of how you chose to feel wounded instead of owning what you created with your original insensitivity to another. Seeing and owning the part YOU played in creating the chain of events you are in denial about, or claiming “ignorance” about.
The entire chain of events leading up to your perceived wounds and fears are always present in your aura or multidimensional DNA, which includes all your realties. Chains of events or cause and effect are sorted out by theme and the resonance that theme carries.
For example the theme of abandonment would START with YOU abandoning another in one of your many realities. YOUR low resonance of abandonment that YOU emanated out would trigger the law of attraction to bring you more experiences of abandonment. To teach you how it felt TO BE abandoned. But instead of observing the entire chain of events you have focused on and LIVED in the last bit of the chain – when you got to experience what you emanated. When you were abandoned.
The theme of betrayal would be the same. It starts with you betraying someone. YOUR low resonance of betrayal would trigger the law of attraction to bring you more experiences of betrayal to feel and experience. Denying how the chain of events got started, when you abandoned another, you choose to live in the wound of BEING betrayed.
When moral dilemmas show up in your experiences and you choose to react with insensitivity or cruelty. That particular type of dilemma will continue to show up in different forms, UNTIL you figure out a compassionate thought for that particular DARK, insensitive, possibly cruel thought pattern you hold and acted on.
The objective observer is able to accept and own the chain of events THEY created and started with their insensitivity and resulting cruelty. An objective observer can leave the feedback loop to become compassionate with the self. No need to judge punish or blame, just know and own “what caused what.” KNOW the only thing YOU could and can change is your thoughts.
Know “Someone else” CAN’T and won’t change things for you.”
KNOW the way to release living in your wounds, is to objectively understand the entire chain of cause and effect. You got as good as you gave, over and over again. You need to understand your contribution to maintaining a particular feedback loop. You get like energy to the energy you emanate.
Traumas you experienced, and OR the fact that you were never rescued HAPPENED. Work on staying present and become the objective observer of your experiences. Own what is true in a calm rational state of consciousness, in higher brainwave states without judgment, punishment or blame.
Before you can release the emotional charge from traumas in childhood, alternate and parallel realities you need to bring them into your conscious awareness so you can own the entire feedback loop consciously. Accept and own that you have been as cruel and insensitive to others as you have personally experienced, even though you may not remember what you did or notice what you continue to do.
Quantum principle of CAUSE and EFFECT or RECIPROCAL ACTION is nothing happens by chance or outside of quantum rules and regulations. The fact that you cannot identify a cause or effect is IRRELEVANT. For every action there is a reaction or consequence someplace.
That is also referred to as karma in the lower vibrations of UNBALANCED energy trying to rebalance itself. Cause and Effect is another way to express the law of attraction, “you get what you give.” Victims and “confused innocents” attract their predators. All three share the same vibration and lack of light, knowledge and compassion.The time lag between cause and effect created the illusion that you CAN get away with greediness and cruelty with impunity, the time lag is gone now.
If you want details about your unbalanced energy ask your soul conglomerate, out loud. Your soul can give names and dates or give you a slideshow of how events unfolded and the thought patterns of every individual involved. If you can’t hear your soul, it will present the information in a dream or some other way you can understand. Ask for a slideshow of you being the predator or perpetrator and re-live those feelings. Can you understand the need to allow others their own path without you using them in anyway to satisfy your neediness, frustration or anger?
To release the emotional traumas and negativities you were part of creating and experiencing, you must look at them and own them, first.
DREAMS that put you back into uncomfortable circumstances, betrayals and when you killed somebody are happening now to help you release that stuck energy. In the dream you’re in the past, but it feels like it’s happening in the now moment, again. These are dreams of release or closure to rebalance your energy, CHANGE your point of perception. Drowning or a surprise death would be revisited to release any emotional charge left on that experience. Your experiences are energies, not just experiences and activities. Balancing your energies, experiences and activities in dreams allow you to hold higher resonances, brainwave states, knowingness and compassionate thoughts.