When trauma and abuse has been your childhood experience, the most common reaction is to hate and blame you, to be angry and frustrated with your inability to protect your body and psyche. Anger about how your trust was betrayed. You have disgust for your physical and emotional needs because they have been used against you, to torment you.
How does figuring out whom to blame benefit you?
Will blame and upset increase you sense of well-being?
Does punishment or blame attract good things to you?
Will anger take you out of your feedback loop of upset?
How does upsetting yourself and getting angry or wounded about your perception of unfairness benefit you? What’s in it for you? What is the payoff? It is important to understand all the factors going into an issue that you have. It is important to understand the viable options you have to choose from.
Lacking compassion you want to blame and punish.
A compassionate one, tries to understand and own, their part in creating the painful childhood cycle they endured. Because they attracted and entrained with that abusive energy field, it would be safe to assume that they delivered the same mean spirited behavior to a helpless child in another reality.
Blame keeps you in the beta brainwave state of fight or flight and generally ignorance and denial about YOUR CONTRIBUTION to the situation you ATTRACTED and entrained with. How your dark thought patterns, attracted you to OTHER “like minded resonances,” maybe not in this lifetime or your conscious memory. But the resonant frequency you sustain attracts like experiences to you.
Those residing in a lower dark consciousness believe killing or tormenting the human container, gets rid of problems or issues, but the consciousness continues on, with or without its human container. There has never been blame, a killing or war that accomplish a compassionate goal, NEVER. The aftermath is always more of the same. Each blame, killing or war seeds the next SIMILAR experience you entrained with electromagnetically.
Where your attention is, there YOU are.
Quantum principle of COMPENSATION and the law of attraction both say that we receive “like energy” to the energy we emanate and share. We attract and are attracted to realities, people, diseases, difficulties, animals, planets and activities that vibrate to our current signature frequency.
Blame is stagnation and an excuse to indulge in addictions, passivity, denial, deflection and dissociation. Enablers OWN blame and fix problems they do not have. Your thoughts can and do change the chemistry of your biology. Healers assist their clients, in a change of consciousness and thought patterns to ultimately change their resonance.
When you believed you were “victimized” Your low resonance attracted your predator and gave you someone or something to blame instead of you owning what is true and doing what you need to do about it in a compassionate frame of mind.