I would hope so, when you talk on the phone that voice doesn’t have a body you can see or touch at that time. Your soul essence and soul conglomerate, along with many others in the invisible realm, can be viewed and interacted with as a TRUSTED friend. A friend that can have a FILMY visible essence, that morphs into whatever you need it, to look like, to feel comfortable with that essence.
Even when your soul essence has gone negative, judgmental and a bit nasty, you can treat it as a friend you need to support in changing its perceptions, of the reality the two of you created together. Every thought you have, quanta create a filmy image of it for you to float in your aura. When you stop thinking about your creation it dissipates, because YOU withdraw your energy, focus and attention. Any thought you keep thinking about, especially with strong emotion, when negative, gets stronger and more solid.
Imagine the size and color of the monster you created floating in your aura, when you continuously think you are stupid or ugly with strong emotion. BUT know that you created it; so guess who is the ONLY ONE that has the power to UN-CREATE it? You un-create anything by withdrawing your energy, emotion, focus and your attention.
Thinking compassionately about you all the time, without emotion or drama, creates compassion in your aura and you all of the time. That is what dissolves your darkness, lacking light or compassion.
Your soul copy, light or darkish, can see and perceive all the creations you have STUCK in your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies. When you OWN one or more of your dark recurring thoughts and point it out to your soul, your soul then knows you have conscious awareness of it. Then the two of you can work on a way to change and reinforce your NEW compassionate, perception together.
For example, every time you think that you or someone else is stupid or ugly, your soul can yank on your earlobe or give you chills in your neck, to remind you to END that thought, change your perception, and move to a compassionate thought instead. The human needs to choose to stop strengthening the large, strong, ugly monster living in its aura. ALSO, you can ask, your soul to MOVE and transmute those filmy stuck thought patterns out of your aura, which is possible. Your judgmental, blaming critical thoughts you hold about you and others.
The tricky part is —
You the human can recreate your monsters in a snap!
If you don’t change your thinking nothing changes for you.
The human needs to consciously acknowledge the negative, critical thoughts they have and own that is how they think. And your friend / soul / soul conglomerate and others in the invisible realm, knows that is how you think. NO SECRETS in the light and light operating system. The human soul essence needs to notice their dark thoughts and redirect their thinking into compassionate thought patterns. No one else can do it for you or if they DO, you will just re-create it.
The THOUGHT, you or someone else is stupid!
WHAT ELSE COULD THEY BE?
Hungry, tired, sick, confused, not paying attention, from another planet or don’t think exactly like you. Instead of making a judgment about them you might want to just objectively observe them, without a judgmental thought, just collect the neutral information, wait for more information, or question them further to increase your understanding.
The THOUGHT of blaming yourself or others!
Your BLAME stagnates YOU, and is used as an excuse to indulge in addictions, passivity, denial, deflection and / or dissociation. Victims generally ask or demand that their predator, help, guide and assist them. That most ALWAYS leads to their re-victimization, more drama and suffering and an excuse to become a predator. EMOTIONS all of them, LOWER cognitive ability and hold you in beta brainwave states of fear and anxiety. Compassion or unconditional love is NOT an emotion; it is THE energy field of rapidly spinning quanta that do not respond to or even notice the slow spin of emotion. Drama Queens and great sufferers do not even get noticed in the light bandwidth.
BLAME, means YOU do NOT own your CREATIONS!
OWN what you created and then try to understand HOW you created it. With the knowledge of how you did it, you will know how to change it or not do it again. If you get pregnant it is NEVER the babies fault. When you ask another to do what you KNOW they can’t do.
Why blame them, because they LIED to you?
But they always lie.
You are the one in denial, because you must enjoy being lied to and pretending to be victimized. If you are miserable because he or she MAKES you upset, the question is, WHY are you engaging with them? What are you getting out of it that defines you? Are you possibly looking for an excuse to be a predator, vent, and be the biggest victim or crybaby?
The THOUGHT, you or someone else gets judged.
JUDGMENT of you or another, a behavior or an event WILL BE a mirror or reflection of the dark thought patterns you hold about yourself. Your judgment is a tool for you to use, to point out TO YOU, any stuck dark patterns of thought you still hold that need transmuting by you. Judgment is you denying parts of you that need to be reclaimed, owned and viewed with your compassion and allowing. Judgment unbalances the one doing the judging, and carries the energy of anger and control that weakens the biology and your aura; it goes against the law of allowing.
Deciding fairness is you making a judgment to assign blame, penalties or punishment.
For example, my father said I was stupid because I didn’t close the door. Finally in my twenties I explained to him that weather or not a person closes a door has nothing to do with their intelligence. When you adopted what your parent, teacher or bully said about you, maybe you tried to prove them right. To show them how much you “loved” them and valued their opinion. It is time to release other’s evaluations and judgments about you. They don’t know you like your soul conglomerate does.
They are not aligned with cosmic truths.
They are on their path, working at their pace, and its wise for you to allow that without your interference.