Your NEEDINESS is not in alignment with ALLOWING. The neediness and demands you make on another means you are not being responsible for you! You most likely are operating under the delusion that another can MAKE you have a strong emotion. That is not true.
When you think, “The person I want something from the most, is very resistant and doesn’t respond to me.”
Have you considered that you are asking for something they CAN’T, won’t or do not want to give you? Can you understand and accept the need to allow others their own path without you using them in anyway to satisfy your neediness, frustration, anger or pathology?
Intimate relationships bring out your DEEPEST childhood wounds and support the MYTH that your needs should be filled by others. How much easier is it to give you what you need instead of tricking another into thinking they can give you what you lack. It never works; others can’t make you better or happy. Others can share knowledge, if they have it. Others can be supportive and guide you. ULTIMATELY you need to create what you want for you.
Healing your wounds is the fastest way to get what you need and want. ALLOW yourself and others the path of their choice WITHOUT your interference, your neediness or demands on them.
Quantum law of PROJECTION or EMANATION is that your INTERNAL point of perception, is your personal STORY that you hold, to be true for you. Your internal thoughts, emotion and reality are projected out to look for things similar to your perception. Your DNA scans your environment for resonances that match your beliefs. Then your DNA changes its structure, to match what you chose to perceive.
This is quantum Law of Attraction and Entrainment in operation. What gets manifested in your external reality is for you to SEE CLEARLY what you think, how it look and feels. Your creations are meant for YOUR electromagnetic energy field. As soon as you cross into another’s energy field to assist them in doing it YOUR WAY you are manipulating or forcing your agenda.
Fairness or the “right way” is not a concept in the fifth dimension and higher brainwave states, because if you do not plan on assigning blame, penalties or punishment what does it matter if it is fair and there is NO “right way.”
Quantum law of FLUIDITY says life is best when experienced as a fluid substance and not as a rigid solid. Life and the quantum field, has no fixed shape; it yields easily to external pressure. The way water runs, no faster or slower than is called for and seeks its own level. Its flow is even, unforced and fluid, staying in the now moment without hurry or standing still.
When you experience resistance and frustration you have moved out of the flow. Take time to consider how to redirect yourself back into the flow of quantum energy.
Quantum law of ENTRAINMENT requires two or more frequencies; resonances, realities or thoughts existing in the same space MUST combine to create a SINGLE resonance. That applies to all sentient beings, humans, planets and universes.
Law of Entrainment is falling into sync with the resonate frequency you attract and have entrained with. The frequencies blend to form ONE resonance. One resonance becomes a self-perpetuating feedback loop that is dark or light. This is how humans create their own individual reality and feedback loop of thoughts. This is how “like minded” ones find each other and remain together. This includes individuals, families, tribes, countries, planets or solar systems.
Quantum principle of RECONCILLIATION is seeking what is common and similar to you and all others allow different qualities to get unified into similarities to diminish differences, which decreases conflict.
Polarities, opposites move into the center point of balance. Examples of combining two or more to make a single resonance: on a scale of 1 to 10. If you are at 2 and the other is at 8 you will vibrate at 5 together. Unless one vibration is overpowering then it will pull the other to their level. That way both would be at 2 or 8 or possibly 3 or 7.
Another mathematical example to explain entrainment is to use a number line with zero at the center and positive numbers on one side and negative numbers on the other side of the number line. A darkness of –3 would need at least a + 3 to neutralize the darkness or to REMIND the dark it comes from the light. It will take more than + 3 to increase the resonance to + 4 or + 5.
As long as YOU WANT something, ANYTHING from another you ARE ENGAGED, entrained with them in a low resonance, maintaining a victim predator feedback loop. A feedback loop of what you want AND their resistance to your neediness. “Your prey” senses your energy field. Even if one of you has the illusion of “a win,” what have you won? You are the only one having the authority to DECIDE that this feedback loop is complete and over for you. Disengaging mentally, psychically, physically and emotionally ends that feedback loop or cycle.
There are 5,000 Earth-like planets in this Galaxy, and all of them are at various stages of evolving into compassion to reunite with the quantum field. They are all supporting each other to increase their states of consciousness or resonance. At the bottom of consciousness in the family of planets, is Gaia, who allowed humanity and the planet, to experiment with the polarities of light and dark. Dark Ones got extremely unconscious, insensitive and cruel.
Those still choosing to avoid compassionate thought patters, are entrained, “bar coded” and ready to join another lower fourth dimension reality. “Back in the day,” Dark Ones or the Lost Ones, came to Gaia when their home planet evolved into the quantum field of light and their low frequency or resonance, dropped they out. When Dark Ones display what might pass for sensitivity, it is generally a “con,” or a “setup,” there is an agenda, hidden or not so hidden. They seek power or control or a desire to force others because they hold the illusion that they are “greater than” or “better than” or “smarter than” another or others.
Quantum principle of HARMONY and AGREEMENT says efforts to manipulate, trick, coerce, compromise or force harmony and agreement is an agenda that disrupts areas of harmony already established.
When children or people are getting along well, allow that without your neediness for attention, conflict or chaos disrupt them.
CONFLICTS and deep listening, do clarify AGENDAS.
CONFLICTS are designed to eventually manifest harmony. Between hostile enemies there is always some small area of agreement that can be increased.