Engaging means, for the period of time you spend with them, mentally in your thoughts or in physicality, and frequently for hours after an interaction, you carry the same LOW resonance or frequency the Dark One carries. Your biology reacts the same way when you argue mentally or when the person is physically present. You will have entrained with their resonance or energy field or carrier wave, of anger, upset, depression, wounding or fear. Your body reacts physically, your hair stands up, adrenalin rushes through your system, and you become hyper-vigilant to danger or another wound. When you stay engaged and entrained with them YOU feed them your energy and they deplete you, then you carry the same low resonance they do.
ENGAGING MEANS allowing into your electromagnetic energy field.
You argued and that puts your biology in red alert.
You upset yourself over something another said or did.
You were “set up” and bought into the lie, now you want revenge.
You over empathized and took on THEIR pain or depression.
You try to please or sacrifice, judge, compete or punish.
You think you are “better than” or “smarter than” another.
The above are all low resonance thought patterns Dark Ones engage in. All lack compassion, which entrain you into the Dark One’s feedback loop. In that treadmill you take on one or all the roles of being victimized, being the predator or the one that gets even and / or you move into denial to become the confused innocent.
FEAR and all the other emotion, trauma and drama, one carries can’t be changed until you own those feelings. Owning a belief or characteristic you have, gives you the power and control to redirect your thinking. Distracting the self or going into denial renders you powerless to change anything.
You need to operate with the belief and KNOW you are independent and able to care for and nurture the self. “Someone else” CAN’T and won’t change things for you. Traumas you experienced, and OR the fact that you were never rescued HAPPENED. Work on staying present and being the objective observer of your upsetting and painful experiences.
Residing in the painful drama and emotion, feedback loop that Dark Ones function in means you will not be ALLOWING each other your freedom. Your fears and emotion mean “someone else” needs to be your caretaker, creator and hand holder. Your fear of not being loved, of being alone or of you being scared, will not allow others their choices. Fear QUASHES compassion for you and others. Know that he, she or it doesn’t “need” you. AND you don’t “need” it, him or her. Fear is a beta brainwave state of consciousness.
The DARK soul essence is notorious for NOT honoring their agreements, promises, threats and contracts. Actually the lies are frequently used as “set ups” to run a “con” on an innocent or trusting person. Fear is a secret about you that you are TRYING to hide from yourself. Fear is only darkness because you have not yet owned and transmuted it yet, into compassion for you.
Light Ones interactions have detached compassion, friendship, and constructive purpose with NOTHING for YOU to gain or loose. There are NO attachments or agendas, you allow, trust and feel safe and calm.