are heavy dependence on anything outside the self. Addiction and compulsions are used to avoid accepting the reality you have created. To avoid owning whatis true, to avoid your responsibilities, by going unconscious or dissociating, crippling the self and forcing others to care for you, by needing to “pick up your slack.” The addicted one, and their enabler’s have agreed to not deal with what is true. Instead both sides engage in the feedback loop or game of drama and wounding each other. Ultimately creating more and different kinds of suffering and wounds for the self and others.It can be said that the third and fourth dimensional struggles, suffering and wounds are things humans are addicted to and need to release.