Each person has their own issues they try to avoid owning, because they find them painful. Their choice was to feel wounded and to protect the self by not owning the wound. Anger covers up your HURT and fear of more pain. Rage and AGGRESSION is fear energy, this is NOT bravery. Anger and indignation HOLD hate also. A desire for punishment of the self and others is found in anger, rage and aggression.
Anger is held in the muscles and bones, in your jaws or legs. Crystallized ANGER becomes arthritis; bone spurs and creates energy blockages in the nervous system and your meridians. Dark nanoparticles feed on that energy compromising the DNA and your immune system. Raging people that shout, clench their fists and get red in the face, feel someone else has what they want. That is not a truth. You need to go within to find what you want and need. You are responsible for you.
People that are not ready to OWN and address their fears are afraid of them and will get angry when you try to force them to own what they are in denial about. UNTIL they feel ready, ANGER, denial and increased stubbornness is their reaction. A fearful person “takes their fear” out on others. Leaders, parents, spouses, children and friends who “take out their own insecurity and hidden fear” on the very ones they are supposed to be leading, parenting, supporting or guiding. They often choose to insult, degrade or frighten those whom they should be supporting with strength, courage and compassion.
Selfish and unfair individuals that seem to love themselves in a very narcissistic manner, live in constant fear that others will realize how worried and scared they are. Selfish and unfair leaders attract and entrain with selfish and unfair followers that are equally fearful, worried and scared.
You can only give to others what you have within you.
In order to give compassion, confidence, dignity and hope to others you need to have those attributes within you. A good person knows how to be compassionate with the self, first. Have conscious awareness of their own thoughts and emotions because, what they THINK about, they BRING about. Thinking anger and wounding means that is what you emanate, and that is what you have to share with others. People’s anger means they will use anger and judgment of others in an attempt to deflect their own fear and anger. This behavior is like a doctor giving a patient what will make them sicker, rather than giving what heals.
The angry one may lie to themself and believe they are a good person and are doing the right thing. Like the older sibling that torments a younger child that is enjoying themself, to “toughen them up.” The angry one wonders why they feel so frightened, angry, victimized and alone. As long as they blame others for their unhappiness and nurture their wounds, they do not need to own the wound they created for the self and continue to feed.
Angry ones do get things they think they want at times, BUT it never satisfies them. Angry ones frequently feel threatened, especially when asked for something like compassion, they fear being depleted of what little self love they may have. Needing or expecting their assistance, means you get abused, blamed and mistreated. When they can find a way to make others “unhappy,” then they can pretend to be the hero and rescue them from the very problem that the “rescuer” created. This technique is used in “trauma based programming” all the time. You hold the child’s head under water until they almost drown and then you pull them out of the water. The almost drowned one, is ever so grateful to the one that “saved them” from drowning. How nutty and true is that? The president shuts down the government so he can be the hero by opening it again