is secret and frequently illegal cooperation or conspiracy, especially in order to CHEAT or DECEIVE others. For example, adults collude against their children. Adults abused as children, that become parents or have access to infants and children, train or condition these children to accept abuse claiming its “normal.” Unless the adult has had therapy or been educated to think and act differently, abusive patterns continue generation after generation, frequently done in secret collusion. Just as some of our leaders, have colluded with each other, against immigrants.
Females and children have received abuse, when older females in collusion with males, feel “entitled” to use others to please them and do their bidding. The younger generation is conditioned and trained to accept abuse as part of their “lot in life.” Older females in collusion with males and other adults, fail over and over again to protect and cherish the young. Men and women use children as slaves, servants and surrogate spouses to satisfy them self emotionally, sexually and physically. These behaviors have been institutionalized in religious beliefs, marital contracts and cultural traditions.
You can consciously choose to leave or break this feedback loop for you and your children. To avoid receiving abuse, one needs to stand in their truth and walk away.