is trying to FIT IN, seeking approval or attention or being fearful of an outside source, like a bully. The OVERLY compliant individual has so little compassion for the self that they become dangerous to others. Compliant people sell each other out and can’t be trusted. They are “just following orders” or afraid of their spouse and fail to protect the self and the children. The overly compliant can be accessed and used at anytime by a “bigger nastier one” that wants to use or force them. They can be trained to kill or forced to sexually, physically and mentally service others.