individuals and groups deny, “What is!” They demand that reality be different than it is and are unwilling to accept their reality as it is. They are waiting for someone to make it better for them. The confused are unwilling to be responsible for the self. Unwilling to move in new directions and unwilling to change their views about what is valuable to them.
The confused, accept one set of lies and misdirection’s and are too scared and stubborn to consider other viable options. So they distract themself with self-pity, dissociation and addictions, waiting for things to match the lies they hold and own! Being in denial makes it easy to elect and believe in another liar and their self-deceptions.
The confused parent, leader, relative or friend is dangerous to engage with because they fail to have anyone else’s emotional, social or intellectual needs on their radar or in their awareness. Their inner torment is acted out on anyone that is too small, weak or absorbed in self-pity to get away from them. These are adult bodies that function EMOTIONALLY like dysfunctional abused toddlers, self absorbed, angry and confused. They refuse to absorb information they are not interested in and demand reality be the way they want it to be.
You can’t reside in the light and be confused, insensitive unconscious or cruel. You can’t desire to be cared for AND be a sovereign being. You can’t “win” or be “better than” and believe in equality.