What is your perception of your value to you?Are you a “mean girl?” Drama queen, hero or troublemaker, are you creating what you enjoy or do you allow others to define you and your worth. What do you think and feel about the experiences you create for you. Your beliefs, actions and relationships are shaped, sustained or dissolved based on what you choose to feed your energy too and focus on. Self-worth is not gathered from EXTERNAL SOURCES, like what other people tell you, events or accomplishments.
In the dark bandwidth feedback loop, manipulators, handlers and enablers are “the predator part of the victim predator cycle.” Predators, handlers and enablers are attracted to and entrain with victims. Victims are people that don’t want to care for, or create for the self, because their soul has been crushed one way or another. An agreement or contract is formed with a predator and victim. Both sides of this ATTRACTION of matching frequencies need each other to exist and reinforce their beliefs. Both sides entrain with each other, to avoid responsibility for the self. “The victim” enjoys the role of complaining about how they are mistreated and not loved by another person. The enabler is the long-suffering “saint” that helps keep the victim crippled.
Predators, victims and confused innocents all chose NOT to be compassionate with the self. They chose to look for compassion from others instead of going within to gather their worth. They allowed others to define the worth they have or don’t have.
Lies, pretty stories, distortion, dis and misinformation, justifications, pleasing, not allowing and self-sacrifice, are found in those with low self-esteem. They are looking outside themself for their value and worth. They are not aligned with give and receive only compassion. Dark One’s focus on each other, only long enough to siphon their energy and possibly take something from the other one. That interaction supply’s only a “temporarily fix” to make both FEEL something. They frequently mistake abuse for “love.” Like all addictions there is a few intense moments of distraction only to look for or create another drama or distraction.
When trauma has been your childhood experience, the most common reaction, is to hate and blame the self, to be angry about your inability to protect your biology, your state of calm and trust in others.
Possibly it is YOU that abandoned you, stop the blaming!
It’s never too late to get invested and compassionate with you again. When your state of consciousness and self worth is low, you will feel negative and your perceptions will appear negative or unpleasant.
When you feel compassion and responsibility for you, you’ll resonate to higher frequencies and increased self worth. You’ll feel hopeful, inspired, and creative. You’ll never feel alone as you will be falling in sync, with your soul conglomerate that exists in the light and always emanates compassion.
Quantum principle of HAPPINESS is an INNER condition about the way you think and feel about WHO you are, what you do and create.
To create or sustain good feelings about you, do the inner work of aligning with quantum truths to create relaxation, calm and communion with your soul. Be fully present, conscious and aware of all that’s going on around and within you.
Your RELATIONSHIPS are a reflection and repetition of the best and worst of your early interactions with your caretakers. Fetus and caretakers were “mature soul essences” attracted and entrained with contractual agreements. All were working on the same issues and challenges to see, feel and resolve.