Service to others needs to be a gift that is asked for and given without strings, agendas or selfish intent. Service to others is a life style found in the light bandwidth, in higher brainwave states when the soul essence is aligned with cosmic truths and its soul conglomerate.
Service to others ALLOWS others the path of their choice WITHOUT your interference, your neediness or demands on them. You assist when asked, in a manner that they can gain some benefit from. Your DETACHED compassion needs to be in sync with your LIGHT soul conglomerate’s perceptions.
SELF-SACRIFICE is NOT generally asked for and not service to others because sacrifice; always has an agenda of quid pro quo. The main thought consciously or unconsciously is about, “What’s in it for ME.” For example:
“I wanted a baby to satisfy MY need for someone to worship me, and I can have someone to control that is too defenseless to leave me.”
“The child needs to heal my wounds and make me feel better about me.”
When you live in your WOUNDS or “needs” that you won’t satisfy for yourself. You believe SOMEONE else OWES you! Any service to others BEFORE you have cleared up your wounds, needs, addictions or compulsions will be self-sacrifice for both of you and NOT a gift to either of you. You will give with one hand and take with the other hand. In a low state of consciousness, your focus and perceptions are on whom to blame, judge and the punishment they should get. You, the wounded, feel entitled to decide all of that with your VERY limited knowledge and righteous indignation.