It is so much easier to blame than it is to change. But it’s not compassionate and prevents you from being responsible for you. People that nurture wounds perceive themself as victims and victims are powerless. Instead of owning the energy field they, EMANATED attracted and entrained with they BLAME.
Individuals, tribes, countries, political parties and religions sometimes collect wounds. Those living in pain and suffering are generally living in past time re-experiencing perceived and real OLD wounds, injuries and injustices. Wound or injustice collecting is frequently a lifetime pattern starting in childhood.
A child with a parent or caretaker, that is very narcissistic and belittling, undermines the child’s self-confidence. They bring up past mistakes or failures over and over again. By making the child feel worthless the parent has the illusion they are right and better than the child.
The wounded young or old, consciously and systematically collect and preserve grievances great and small, unfairness, transgressions and violations real or imagined. The collecting is to feed and nourish a twisted point of perception to justify the wounded exacting personal revenge. They never let go and do strike back. Collectors hold grudges are rigid, demanding, self-righteous, and easily offended to justify their eventual acts of revenge.
Injustice collectors can and do assign sinister, nefarious reasons or motivations to innocent, benign actions in others. To argue or debate with an injustice or wound collector entrenched in their belief system will probably add you to their list of wounds. Manifestos written by the criminally dangerous wounded, like serial, spree, and mass murderers generally include rambling, repetitive and emotionally, threatening phases or statements and the need for revenge. Revenge fantasies seem to be an appropriate and logical response to the wounded. “Wound collecting Americans” have elected “injustice collectors” to serve in the government and judicial bodies on all levels.
When your choice is to be righteously indignant and suffer or upset yourself because of real or imagined wounds you choose to live in your pain body, you keep recreating and feeding the same feedback loop. Many soul essences are in the resonance of the lower fourth dimension waiting for someone to make it all better for them. Another can’t do for you what YOU NEED to do for you. All beings exist within the “Frequency Band of Reality” matching their thoughts and feelings. The reality they wish to perceive and interact with. Your perceptions and thoughts change your “Frequency Band of Reality.”