To know, if your thoughts about you and others are compassionate, you need to stay conscious and FEEL what you THINK. Compassionate thoughts stay out of beta brainwave thought patterns of pleasing others, fear, self-loathing, attention to your container instead of your soul, sexual addictions / compulsions and acting out, which are all fear responses. “Compassionate ones” have no agendas, attachments and are always awake, aware and sensitive to all of their senses and expanded senses.
The senses of people residing in the dark have gone DEAD with the exception of the very unpleasant sensations they choose to dwell in and deliver to others. Avenging their wounds and those of their relatives or tribe. These thought patterns get smaller, tighter and create a meaner reality that is not enjoyable to experience. Imagine existing for the soul purpose of tormenting or killing others. What is the point of existence? Where is the joy and creativity? When you are mean spirited or on the attack you perpetuate being the victim and predator. A game or thought pattern that hurts all players, that goes nowhere and accomplishes nothing. Your only enjoyment is making others feel that rather small range of negative feelings, which you dwell in.
“Misery loves company.”
Then you are entrained together enjoying your illusion of power, control and self-worth. That is what the dark bandwidth is built and maintained on. When that game gets tiresome for you, consider expanding into some pleasant sensations. Like, caring for and enjoying yourself. Using your creativity for constructive purposes.
It is not and NEVER has been your job to punish or torment yourself or others. Remember we are all mature soul essences or copies of our soul conglomerate’s DNA driving around our biology. Our soul conglomerate resides in the light bandwidth of compassion. To move out of the dark you need to master allowing, again.
The cosmic truth of ALLOWING means you stop trying to get others to adopt your reality, your beliefs, your pain and suffering and carrying your darkness. Allowing grants EACH individual the right to have their own reality to BE and DO whatever they choose as long as they AVOID VIOLATING the rights of others or destroying any part of the collective environment.
Have you noticed that TRUE warm, friendly, enjoyable emotions and sensation don’t need to be FORCED on others?
Patience is putting the law of allowing into practice.
Allowing things, people and events to unfold in their own manner. Patience is needed because humans are not generally aware of, or choose NOT to consider or care about, all the other factors in play. Humans do not generally realize the very wide variety of ways an event or person can be perceived or proceed. Humans do not see, even a small percentage, of the full spectrum of options that an event or person can experience. Communing with your soul conglomerate can increase your awareness and knowledge; of the number of options or synchronicities the human has available, considering all the elements that are present and converging or NOT converging together.