People that lie and distort what is true are trying to protect themself from a judgment they have made or owned about the self. They are wounded or not being compassionate and THINK they can hide it from others. Any wound, judgment or lie when not addressed, festers and gets increasingly distorted. Denial and dissociation are used to hide or delay addressing what is true. The wounded or liar thinks they can avoid the truth, their wound, anger, stinginess or mean spiritedness. Out come the pretty stories and disinformation as they try to put “frosting on feces.”
Lies, pretty stories, distortion, dis and misinformation, justifications, pleasing, not allowing and self-sacrifice, are only found in the dark bandwidth of solidified light. Holding thoughts that are NOT universal truths chip away at your self-worth create worry, confusion, doubt and isolation IN YOU, because you are trying to protect yourself from the truth.
The vast majority of people, who LONG for the “good old days,” are not longing for anything that really happened. They long for the illusion they created for themself, to exist in, to get through stressful unpleasantness. For example, experiencing a childhood, where you were never valued or even seen. Having dysfunctional parents, unable to care for themself and expecting a child to “make it all better for them.” The truth is each individual needs to “make it all better for the self.”
No one else can “make it all better for you.”
First own what is true.
The longing for what “could have been” is YOU grieving, YOUR illusions and pretty stories YOU made up for you — that never came true. Just like “the trickle down theory” that will never be true. Until you and the congress OWN what is true you will remain stuck and confused. Anytime you feel like a confused innocent you are in denial about what is true.
To move into greater light:
Always remain conscious about what is TRUE. Dissociating or denial or secrets or pretty stories or claiming ignorance or innocence leaves YOU alone in the dark. When you engage with Dark Ones you also entrain with them, siphon each other’s light and dark thought patterns.
You are your creator, when you find unpleasantness seek a new point of perception, gather more FACTS and change the situation accordingly. Compassionate relationships, personal and professional, are only possible when both or all partners or parties have achieved their own individual harmony, balance, honesty and detached compassion.