Conditional love thought forms “look” like love, but FEEL like fear or anger. Fear of loss or freedom to express the self, anger because its always quid pro quo, an exchange, in which you might need to give or suppress too much. Conditional love is a thought form of fear cloaked in the illusion of love.
Conditional love always wants to get something from an external source. His or her operating principle is that someone else NEEDS to CREATE for them what they think they need and want. That belief is misdirected, each individual needs to create there own sense of safety and self worth with compassion.
For example, Caretaking is an exchange, a quid pro quo feedback loop. The caretaker gathers their self worth from how well they maintain the one(s) they are caring for. Focus is on one part or aspect of the whole person. The caretaker has no desire or need to know or invest in the whole person. The caretaker only feels safe interacting with one or a few parts of the whole person and will assume the other parts of the person FEEL’S or experiences life, like they do. Which most likely is not the truth.
The one being cared for, to avoid conflict, needs to go along with the caretaker’s perceptions of reality that they might not be in agreement with. Not meeting your own needs when you are able to do that is a slippery slop. The caretaker will generally go through periods of feeling they are being taken advantage of and that is when their caretaking feels like fear and anger. It was not a gift freely given it was quid pro quo.
Compassion or unconditional love carries no agendas, neediness or manipulation and you FEEL free, safe, trusting and empowered.
There are thought forms flowing through the aura of the planet continuously. Dark thought forms created and maintained in the feedback loop by the lost ones or Dark Ones or the Illuminists that continue to saturate our reality with their fears and anger. The mass UN-consciousness of Dark One’s thoughtlessly entrain with the “pep rallies” of anger and fear without evaluating or FEELING what they support. The numb unconscious humans space out in front of their computer, television or newspaper soaking up the drama in order to FEEL something, to feel they are alive and part of something. Conditional love wants to get something or they demand or just take. Many 3D religions, countries and families are filled with fear, anger, and revenge.
But, never fear!
There are an increasing compassionate thought forms and resonances building to counteract the darkness, anger and fear. Compassion raises your resonance beyond the reach of the negative thought forms that can only survive in the third and lower fourth dimensions. Unconditional love seeks to give something. Many members of the Galactic and Celestial Family have bi-located into human forms to re-direct humanity back to the energy field of compassion.
The 3D video game played on earth has lasted too long and gotten too corrupted, which is why the galactic and celestial energy field has sent the human’s higher expression of their stream of consciousness in, to log into the 3D game and Matrix to transmute its energy.
When your choice is to remain attached and entrained with your many third dimensional habits, things, desires, ambitions, angers, fears and some people, you will continue to entrain with the illusions of the third dimension and remain in the lower fourth dimension.
As your consciousness expands into higher states of consciousness, your perceptions expand also. In higher consciousness, you see how all polarities merge into the middle of the continuum where unity is present. Your thoughts and emotions dictate how you interact with the world around and within you. When you LISTEN to your thoughts and emotions without judgment, upset or blame it centers you in a compassionate state of conscious. Feeling compassionate and centered is the result of loving your self.
Your thoughts and emotions create your state of consciousness, which create your brainwave activity affecting your thoughts, emotions and behavior, which create the reality you perceive and exist in. Remember, all the many versions of your reality are functioning within the same NOW! When you surround your self with unconditional love and acceptance, you will resonate to that frequency of reality.
When your consciousness shifts so do you. As your awareness of higher consciousness, dreams, memories, and visions flow into your waking state, sleeping or meditation your awareness and intellect increases. Humanity needs to be fully conscious of what is occurring, in their life, and within their greater reality.