ENGAGING means you are allowing another energy field into your electromagnetic field and you are entraining with it.
Arguing puts your adrenals and biology in red alert.
Upsetting yourself over something another said or did.
You were “set up” and bought into the lie, now you want revenge.
You over empathized and took on THEIR pain or depression.
You tried to please or sacrifice, judge, compete or punish.
You think you are “better than” or “smarter than” another.
You tried to elicit loving feelings from an individual that is unable to love himself or herself, so they can’t love you and you got all frustrated.
The above are all low resonance thought patterns Dark Ones engage in with each other. Within that cycle they experience playing all three roles, victim, predator and confused innocent. This can be a low level drama or a drama of operatic per portion. All roles use manipulation.
All roles mean NOT allowing each other.
All roles lack compassion for the self and the other.
You choose to feel victimized because you can’t get what you want. You are the predator because you are demanding to get what another cannot or does not want to give you. You are the confused innocent that doesn’t understand why you can’t have what you want. You move into denial, frustration and vengeance because nothing in the dark bandwidth is fair, is satisfying or makes sense.
The truth is that you need to give to you what you want and need.
For example, your home burns down or an important relationship ends. You create an accident or disease or trauma for you to experience. These are extreme events used to WAKE YOU UP and feel what you think! Humans need to be conscious to decide what they want to resonate with. Only conscious people are able to FEEL their resonance and the experiences their resonance attracts to them. We all are our own creators – for the SELF only.
Attracting extreme events or smaller events of change, wake you up and alert you to what is going on IN YOU and around you. Sometime, those that have left their countries for “better opportunities” are disappointed and return to their country of origin to see and notice opportunities they never noticed before.
Are you venting on others and seeking revenge?
Is your reaction to what you experience curses and blame?
Will you remain in your pain body and dysfunction, making others responsible for taking care of you? Will you sexually act out and victimize the smaller weaker or dependent ones in your life. Will you get depressed or dissociate? All of these thoughts and reactions have a dark resonance that will attract others to you carrying the same resonance of thought and reaction. Do you need more of the same before you change your thought patterns to compassion for you?
Consider having compassionate reactions to extreme or not so extreme events. You can consider your experience an opportunity to change direction and heal past wounds. People or situations that were not conducive to you being compassionate with you probably need removing. Create opportunities to disengage with Dark Ones, dark groups of friends or relatives. Stay conscious of your thoughts and feelings. Stand up for your truths and only accept compassion for you while you give only compassion to others.
Consider this scenario, you were raised in a community of people that ignored you, used you, abused you and never understood you or had compassion for you BECAUSE they too, were all wounded. Now your work environment recreated the same situation for you. Your adult experiences reflect your childhood experiences FOR A GOOD REASON, to wake you up! That way you have the opportunity to DECIDE if you want MORE of what you have already had a lot of. Your awareness is offering you an opportunity for you to heal your wounds with compassion.
Know and own that there was nothing wrong or bad about you. But you believed you were worthless and didn’t deserve any better. Your caretakers and YOU, all carried the same resonance, attracted and entrained with each other to reflect the thoughts you held about each other as a group. The beliefs and thoughts you all held created unpleasant experiences for all of you.
Now that you are awake and consciously feeling, do not allow others to abuse you. Leave your family, job or friends that are abusive. Set your boundaries. Standing up for your rights and fair treatment in every situation. You cannot change Dark Ones but you can protect yourself by not engaging with them or opening up your electromagnetic field or aura to them. That is being compassionate to both of you.
When you are awake and processing the energies around you in physical reality, it is easier and easier to sense those with ill intent and easier to avoid them or stand in your truth and not engage. Discern the various possible outcomes without upsetting yourself. Notice that The Dark Ones are not getting away with all they have previously pulled off with impunity. Increasing percentages of light in our solar system is making a difference, look for it. Enjoy what you experience without fear or upsetting the self. Notice the various ways events are unfolding without judging them.
You can choose to stop crippling a “significant other” by keeping them tethered and dependent on their relationship with you. Allow both of you to stop sacrificing, servicing, competing or compromising in order to maintain a relationship with each other. You claiming compassion for you will allow others to do the same. You will also be an example of “HOW TO” be responsible and compassionate with the self and all others.