EMOTION and drama are characteristic of beta and some alpha brainwave states of consciousness of fear and anxiety. Fear and anxiety exist in the feedback loop of predator, victim and confused innocent. In that feedback loop one plays all three roles at various times. BUT the focus is always on the time “you felt victimized.”
In becoming the compassionate detached observer of the feedback loop, you can own the times YOU WERE the predator and the times you went into denial to become the confused innocent. Owning only being wounded will not help you heal. Living in one wound after another. Who is culpable?
John’s mother has made John her emotional support.
John hits Sue and you make him apologize.
John says that’s not fair because Sue tormented him first.
Sue tormented John because her father abuses her.
Sue’s father is an addict that Sue’s mother enables.
Who is the “bad” one and what can YOU do about it?
How helpful would it be to judge or blame or punish or force anyone of these people? How helpful would it be to manipulate, get angry, threaten, scare, torment or shame one or two of them?
Their soul essence’s resonance has attracted and entrained them all into this feedback loop with each other. They continuously cycle different roles and create issues for each other by their PERCEPTIONS of being a victim, predator and confused innocent. There is NO long lasting WIN for any role within this cycle. All the roles played LACK compassion for the self and all others.
LOWERED cognitive ability is always characteristic of the feedback cycle of “emotion and dramas” because of the LIMITED focus each player has on their own personal WOUND. They choose to feel and feed their wounds instead of being the objective observer of the entire chain reaction of self-absorbed individuals, each thinks they are powerless, and MORE victimized than the others.
Their interactions and thought patterns are based on, HOW TO GET THE MOST from the wound they decided they have. “Living in a wound” and exacting revenge consciously or unconsciously for being wounded. Of course the other players need to buy into the same illusion to keep the game going. This is why it is called the DARK bandwidth or unconsciousness. There is the current wound and the current revenge or acting out or in.
Not OWNING that you play all three parts in this feedback loop means it never ends and never gets healed. All deny responsibility. All wait, want, suffer and live in their wounds and the collateral damage they create. People with compassion for the self don’t play “wound games.”
BLAME is used to avoid responsibility, used to stagnate and wallow in a wound. Blame is the excuse used to indulge in addictions, passivity, denial, deflection and / or dissociation. Victims generally ask or demand that their predator, help, guide and assist them. That most ALWAYS leads to their re-victimization, more drama and suffering.
ANGER and RAGE covers up your HURT, your wounding, frustration and fear of more pain. Rage and AGGRESSION is fear energy, this is NOT bravery. Anger and righteous indignation HOLD hate also. A desire for punishment of the self and others is found in anger, rage and aggression.
Anger is held in the muscles and bones, in your jaws or legs. Crystallized ANGER becomes arthritis; bone spurs and creates energy blockages in the nervous system and your meridians. Dark nanoparticles feed on that energy compromising the DNA and immune system. Raging people that shout, clench their fists and get red in the face, feel someone else has what they want. That is not true. Go within to find what you need.
FEAR helps you pay closer attention, to discern what you need to avoid, to survive physically and emotionally. BUT fear is also used to cover YOUR guilt and anger. Fear also, comes in to challenge your resolve to be compassionate, before your history is transmuted and rewritten.
FREE-FLOATING fear or anxiety is an inability to attach your fear to a current situation because it is about an old incident or old pattern of yours found in concurrent realities, ancient fears or a group energy field of fear.
Honoring dark truths, obligations or rules manufactured for you to please Dark One’s or YOU forcing or abusing you, have NO spiritual value or wisdom in them. There is NO need, obligation or wisdom in honoring them. Loyalty to a parent or leader is not being compassionate to you.
Residing in the feedback loop that Dark Ones function in means you will not be ALLOWING each other your freedom. Your fears mean “someone else” needs to be your caretaker, creator and hand holder. Your fear of not being loved, of being alone or of you being scared, will not allow others their choices. Fear QUASHES compassion for you and others.
GUILT means you give pieces of you, your energy away to those that you love, hate, and feel guilty about. Guilt destroys, sucks or siphons the life force out of you, decreasing your self-image, self-esteem, passion and life force. Guilt and the resulting self-punishment create the feeling that you are wrong and worthless. Guilt is used to control or force others and negates compassionate.
Honoring dark truths, obligations or rules manufactured for you to please Dark One’s or YOU forcing or abusing you, have NO spiritual value or wisdom in them. There is NO need, obligation or wisdom in honoring dark truths or guilt.
HATE is intense passion without compassion, wisdom or awareness. Hate is a DEEP desire to be accepted by the one you hate, especially when it is yourself. Hate is blaming someone, thing or event for keeping FROM you, what you want or think you need. Hate is confusion and misdirection taking you away from rational thought and compassion, it keeps your consciousness frozen.
JEALOUSY or ENVY is you thinking someone or something else is getting what YOU think you should be getting from some external source. So you start whining, pouting, plotting and complaining to guilt or force the other to give it to you. When you do manage to get what you THINK you need or want. It is never enough, or long lasting enough or exactly how you like it. What you create for the self is the only thing that satisfies.
SADNESS WHEN prolonged, contains a perceived loss or possible retribution AND anger about being abandoned. Prolonged sorrow turns into depression and or anger turned in on the self. Sadness released at the time it arises lets you stay balanced and aligned with the law of allowing. Sadness says a cycle has ended. You grieve and cry for what is known, lost or changed. Events just are, do not move into their energy field and stagnate there.
EMOTIONAL CHARGE left on an experience, is an intense electrical impulse stored as potential energy in the body as TENSION. When a painful memory gets triggered or re-stimulated you relive it exactly as you experienced it the first time.
To release that tension, STAY CONSCIOUS and aware as you relive the experience and expand your awareness of your thoughts and others thinking. Keep reliving that experience, mentally until the emotional charge releases and you become the objective observer, gathering knowledge and wisdom about what YOU attracted and entrained TO YOU, with the thought patterns you hold. Your soul can always give you the truth: JUST ask, listen to what is said and be patient, you’ll get the answers you seek.