When you are always upsetting yourself because your life isn’t moving in the direction you want it to, try to calm the self and move your awareness within you. The answers about you and for you, are inside you. Listen to what is being said or conveyed to you, from the inside of you. Listening ALONE will bring your consciousness UP in vibration and knowledge. Your human self and your soul conglomerate will co-create awareness and options for you.
Couples and groups fall apart and argue or upset themself when they are in a low state of consciousness, which means they have chosen to feel wounded or victimized or confused or entitled. Blame, judgment and entitlement generally lead to friction, conflict and beta brainwave states that seldom accomplish their goals or any pleasant interaction.
When residing in low states of consciousness, the default strategy to get something done or make a relationship function moves into a dictatorship or authoritarian rule and no one is really pleased with that. When your energy field is not synchronized with the other or the members of the group, the group energy field collapses into “the bosses” and “the employees.” In that case, you are told what to do and think. A group energy field is a great challenge in the beta brainwave state.
Questioning can matter more than the answer.
When there is friction or upset IN YOU.
ASK, “Which immutable cosmic truth am I not aligned with?”
Asking that question will raise your state of consciousness into a higher state, because you are CONSCIOUS and desire to gather some wisdom. In higher brainwave states you are able to become the “objective observer” of YOUR thinking and the results of your thought. Couples and groups can only be compassionate and run smoothly in higher states of consciousness WHEN aligned with immutable cosmic truths.
ASK, am I judging or not allowing others?
ASK, am I blaming another for what I created?
ASK, do I want another to do what I need to do?
ASK, AM I expecting DARK ONES to ACT like Light Ones?
Are you engaging with Dark Ones and expecting light reactions? Know that dark, cheat, steal and lie always. It is never a case of IF, but WHEN. Why engage with them? When there is a group energy field, with Dark Ones in it, things will get twisted and people will be used and abused. Your intention, purpose, aim, goal, objective or plan will get misdirected. When working with dark thought patterns of force, blame and drama, most anything takes a long time to get created. Then, when you fail to actively fulfill your intention, you may feel disappointed and judge your self harshly. Then calm the self, go within and ask the above questions. Then listen carefully to your answers. Know they are true, own the truth and then act on your knowledge.
When you are operating in a higher brainwave state and energy field, you will notice that “asking the question” will result in the answer popping into your consciousness immediately. Leaderless movements, groups or couples can’t be co-opted. The leader can’t be bought out or intimidated or killed because there isn’t one. Leaderless movements allow for freer expression and creativity from all members. When a couple or group, and ALL are operating in a higher brainwave states and energy field, there are no leaders or followers. Individuals feel safe, equal and secure enough to express themself and their creative thinking.
An example of MOVEMENT from COMPASSION to a LOWER state of consciousness that always makes things more unpleasant.
During the 1970s and 1980s the people and the political rhetoric, about crime and drugs, was about understanding, caring for and fixing the causes. Fixing the causes was VERY complicated and the systemic issues were generational. Compassion and understanding was needed to change child-rearing practices. Punishment and abusive treatment of children and adults only created more of the same. Punishment helps sustain the dark cycle of victim predator and confused innocent with the fear it generates and the need to master covert behaviors and actions to avoid punishment. Punishment lacks compassion for the self and goes against the cosmic truth of allowing.
Dark Ones and some of our politicians don’t understand compassion or caring and concern. They got easily frustrated with their “perceived” lack of progress with things changing in the direction they wanted to go. They needed a catch phrase to get elected again and Dark Ones wanted protection from their creations.
Time to blame and punish the victim!
If you don’t understand it, HIT it!
The thinking and frustration went from intervention and reform to ANGER and upset. For Dark One’s anger, blame and punishment are all they understand. The politicians created the illusion that they were doing something to protect Dark Ones from their manifestations with their “war on drugs” and crime. The late 1980s early 1990s saw an increase in violent crimes and drug use and imprisonment. Now you are witnessing Dark Ones killing Dark Ones and others that get in the way.