The infant’s soul reads and feels the energy and intent of all the people it comes in contact with. The soul is infinite and the biology is used for the soul to experience the third dimensional illusion and matrix. A common theme in most dark and dysfunctional family’s feedback loops is favoring one over another and withholding what the other wants or needs, until you get what you want FIRST. A game the president of America is always playing and learned at home.
FAVORING ONE while WITHHOLDING from ANOTHER
Giving one person PERKS, like your attention kindness or gifts. Giving perks to a favored child you are most likely “setting up,” to get abused by you, while denying another child or adult what they want or need. You withhold your attention kindness or gifts from the “other parent” or another sibling or both.
Gifting one and withholding from another automatically sets up two opposing feelings in the one getting gifted with “special treatment.” First of all they realize the PERKS are withheld when they fail to comply willingly and obediently, with the twisted, frequently sexual NEEDS of the “perk giver” or insecure bully. They enjoy the special treatment or gifts and feel guilty about wounding the other person(s).
This dynamic is what passes for LOVE – very conditional love or quid pro quo in Dark One’s feedback loops. When you engage with “favoring and withholding” you also become a “Perk Giver and Denier” along with feeling guilty about wounding others and forcing others to satisfy your needs. That is – if you are still feeling and owning what you feel.
This dynamic also sets one up to believe that tangible objects EQUAL love. When one fails to feel loved by what they own, stole or bought. They decide to get MORE, of what is unable to satisfy their need for self-acceptance and self-compassion.
They wine “It’s not fair” I am a good person, why am I getting punished? BUT they haven’t been a good person to themself.
They ARE NOT being punished; they are suffering because they try to force or demand REALITY BE the way they want it to be, by “pleasing others” sacrificing and withholding from others what they want or need. They are going against the universal flow or quantum field of compassion and universal truths. In particular, the law of allowing is not being honored.
Being compassionate and responsible for giving YOU, all you need and want enables you to leave the resonance, of “favoring one and withholding from another” feedback loop.
“Favoring one and withholding from another” feedback loop goes nowhere you want to go. Realize and own the roles you played and want to stop playing. Then realize that the self-acceptance and compassion you seek can only be given to the self, BY the SELF and your soul.
When you don’t love you unconditionally first, how can you accept compassion from another? You will decide it is a PERK, “set-up” or quid pro quo and you’ll need to respond in kind. Maybe you don’t want too respond in kind. Maybe you don’t believe there are gifts without strings attached, because you are unable to give you a gift without any strings attached.
See you ARE your creator!
There is a “universal flow of compassion” also called the quantum field, you are aligned with it, or NOT aligned with it. You fall in sync with giving and receiving only compassion or you don’t. There is movement from individuality to the mass consciousness of warm friendly flow of unconditional love, acceptance and shared knowledge, or not. There are no secrets or lies or double speak, because all can read your thoughts in the light bandwidth.
What you think you create for YOU.
COLLUSION is secret and frequently illegal cooperation or conspiracy, especially in order to CHEAT or DECEIVE others. For example, adults collude against their children. Adults abused as children, that become parents or have access to infants and children, train or condition these children to accept abuse claiming its “normal” and good for them. Unless the adult has had therapy or been educated to think and act differently, abusive patterns continue generation after generation, frequently done in secret collusion. Just as some of our leaders, have colluded with each other, against immigrants.
Females and children have received abuse, when older females in collusion with males, feel “entitled” to use others to please them and do their bidding. The younger generation is conditioned and trained to accept abuse as part of their “lot in life.” Older females in collusion with males and other adults, fail over and over again to protect and cherish the young. Men and women use children as slaves, servants and surrogate spouses to satisfy them self emotionally, sexually and physically. These behaviors have been institutionalized in religious beliefs, marital contracts and cultural traditions.
You can consciously choose to leave or break this feedback loop for you and your children. To avoid receiving abuse, one needs to stand in their truth and walk away.