Is a trap, a prison of entrainment you create and maintain, for the two or more of you, entrained in the belief, that you are owed something! Insisting on, demanding, forcing and waiting for what you THINK you are OWED, is a devolving feedback loop you are choosing to FEED and sustain with your energy and focus. Dark Ones GIVE a little, or lie, to take a lot. Dark parents and dark children ALWAYS take and take. NOTHING in the dark bandwidth is fair!
Demanding, wanting or waiting for something from someone that DOES NOT want to give “it” to you. Is you, choosing to experience a state of passivity, stagnation, and powerlessness. BECAUSE YOU choose to wait, want or demand YOU consider your self victimized! REALLY?
The only one that is responsible for you is you. If you are demanding, wanting or waiting for something from another, YOU are also choosing victimhood or being the confused innocent so that you can be the predator. The predator demanding, wanting or waiting for something the other has chosen to WITHHOLD from you. Do you deny what is true?
Is this game, one you really want to play?
No matter how much a Dark One is given or manages to “guilt” or force out of others, it is NEVER enough. It is never done the right way or often enough. This is a game of power, control and who wins “what” competition.
Say you were a seriously abused a child!
Your parent favors one child over another and YOU are waiting to “get what they got” or what you think they got. Are you smart enough to realize that dark parents are never fair and have no desire to change their insensitivity! They enjoy controlling you with your “NEEDINESS” it amuses them to see their child suffer like they did as children. You waiting for equal treatment from a nasty parent is not rational or practical. Waiting for any Dark One to change ENTRAINS YOU to their DARKNESS making you the same level of darkness they are. At the time of your birth you were attracted to and entrained with parents carrying complementary amounts of light. You were the victim attracted to and entraining with the predator you most likely victimized previously or in another reality.
When YOU release what you “THINK” you are owed the game or entrainment ends.
Maybe waiting for and wanting what you feel you lack creates a need in you to be the hero, avenger or the one needing caretaking or being “put in charge.” You step up your forcing to actively demand what you want and YOU become the predator.
NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING!
NO ONE needs your reality FORCED on them!
NOTHING in the dark bandwidth is fair!
No one took anything from you, because you allowed, engaged with and entrained with the other players. You chose to experience being the victim, confused innocent and predator. Your perception of what happened allowed you to experience all three roles. Waiting, wanting, demanding, suffering, living in your wounds and being righteously indignant, means there is no need for you to be responsible for your creations and the collateral damage you create by not being responsible for you and what you think. It doesn’t matter if your sibling got more money than you did. It’s YOUR job to serve and create for you, exactly what you want. You will never get what you want from Dark Ones.
Your thought pattern of: “When will things be the way I WANT them?” Needs to shift to, what can you change for you:
“How do I change my thoughts to enjoy or change what IS?”
Then you can ACTIVILY partake in your world and version of your reality exactly as it is. Light One’s ALLOW and are ACCEPTING of what is true. Hopefully you are trying to rebalance the dark energy game you played with each other by accepting that no one owes you anything.
DOUBT is used to avoid OWNING and KNOWING what is true. Doubt constructs a “barrier” around unsafe and unpleasant memories from your past nasty behaviors. That “past” could have been yesterday or many lives ago.
NOTHING in the dark bandwidth is fair!
KNOWING is being free of all doubt and there is nowhere to hide, you’re aware of what is true. Freedom from doubt is liberating and lays out a clear path forward. Having an expanded consciousness is having peacefulness and the ability to ALLOW others to do as they wish. When you can allow everything and everyone to be exactly as they are, especially in your THOUGHTS, you will feel peaceful. When you stop questioning, criticizing, fixing and trying to alter the way others do, say or wear things, you will feel peaceful. FIXING, demanding or manipulating others is not your job and drops you into a beta brainwave state of consciousness. Do not interact or entrain with Dark Ones, especially family.
Peacefulness in the biology means a lower heart rate, relaxed nerves and muscles, emotional calm and your breath automatically slows. One must remain calm, focused and usually creative to experience their higher fourth dimensional self and higher brainwaves.