When you open your mouth to talk, what is the purpose?
To let someone know they are doing it WRONG, again?
To complain about how you’re suffering and unhappy?
Are you “setting them up” by asking a question you want a specific answer to and they have to guess what the answer needs to be to please you? When you get the answer you want, do you torment them further about how wounded, sad and unfair the world, and they are? Then there is your body language of grunts and groans for everyone to be showered in. Some of us are also reading your thoughts of blame and judgment.
And you wonder why they tune you out and try to avoid you.
What a mystery. And it proves they don’t love you also.
Consider the COSMIC truth of attraction. Are you giving what you get and getting what you give? Are your THOUGHTS, in your head, being mirrored back to you in the reality you surround yourself with? Are you EXPECTING another to MAKE you joyful? When they fail in that endeavor, do you pout and complain about something that has no relevance to the situation. Imagine not wanting to be around someone like that.
Is it possible for another to make you joyful?
I think not.
If you want to feel victimized – no one can take that from you.
They could try to share their enthusiasm with you and you could quash it. You could reject any pleasantness and rant on about your depression and unhappiness. Who wouldn’t enjoy being around that field of energy When you continue bathing in negativity, you create your own isolation and people avoiding you. When you lie, are cruel, rude and only concerned with self-aggrandizement like some leaders are, your world gets darker and scarier and lonelier.
CONSIDER the FOLLOWING
Opening up a dialogue with another instead of venting and judging, might help you attract something for you that is more enjoyable, higher vibrating and holds some light. The two of you can explore all the “nooks and crannies” of your thoughts. Every small, out-of-the-way thought you hold. You can share personal experiences and bits of wisdom you have gathered in your vast wanderings.
RECIPROCAL means given, felt, or done in return. Binding two parties equally to an agreement or obligation, mutual action or relationship. CAUSE and EFFECT is another way to express the law of attraction, “you get what you give.”
You can let someone know what they are doing WRONG, and they’ll let you know what you do wrong. You can complain about how you’re suffering and unhappy and they can share their misery. This is sharing instead of venting and blame.
The COSMIC Truth of CAUSE and EFFECT or RECIPROCAL ACTION says that nothing happens by chance or outside of universal truths. The fact that you cannot identify the cause or effect is IRRELEVANT. For every action there is a reaction or consequence someplace. That is also referred to as karma in the lower vibrations of UNBALANCED energy trying to rebalance itself.
The time lag between cause and effect CREATING the illusion that you CAN get away with greediness and cruelty with impunity is gone! If you want details about your unbalanced energy ask your soul conglomerate, out loud. Your soul can give names and dates or give you a slideshow of how events unfolded and the thought patterns of every individual involved. If you can’t hear your soul, it will present the information in a dream or some other way you can understand. Ask for a slideshow of you being the predator or perpetrator and re-live your thoughts and feelings.
COMPASSIONATE LISTENING, HEARING what is actually said, or DEEP LISTENING is done to help ease another’s suffering and increase your compassion. It is and interactive activity that creates synergy between people, which creates light or faster spinning quanta. Increased light is a catalyst for change. Encourage the one suffering to share their feelings, thoughts and beliefs. Tell them what you observe as a way to validate them and double check your perceptions. Tell them you can see they are in pain and you want to understand their point of perception. Mostly LISTEN because this is not the time to offer advice or tell YOUR story. Your response or reaction to their experience can bring them relief or more suffering.
At a later time you can present a different point of perception or more information if and when it’s asked for.
Modern technology has no soul essence to receive messages, or the compassion to perceive new information.
Modern humanity must learn to “listen to Gaia,” the large transition within the Core of Gaia is happening and nearing completion. Dark Ones can only control the third dimensional media. They cannot control humanity’s fourth dimension of dreams and visions, as Gaia resonates increasingly to only the resonance of the fourth dimension and beyond. There is always a need to be conscious and discern or read your environment. Light humanity merges their consciousness together to assist Gaia, and each other, in releasing the third dimensional matrix of bondage, the dark bandwidth.