Withholding to punish and control whom?
Withholding is found in the beta brainwave state and in psychology is called passive aggressive behavior. One person withholds something they have that another wants or thinks they need. You can withhold affection, nurturing, information, thoughts, feelings, reassurance and much more. Withholding is a form of psychological manipulation of undue influence, with the intention to seize power, control, benefits and / or privileges at the victim’s expense. Imagine the suffering of a child that has the basic necessities withheld from them. The soul essence may leave and allow the biology to die or allow another soul to control the biological container.
Consciously withholding is typically motivated to punish the other person and to maintain the upper hand in a relationship especially when it is an adult and child. The skill of withholding what is wanted from the other is mastered in childhood from another “withholder.” Its also one soul essence attracted and entrained with another like-minded soul essence, locked in a competition to see whom will “win” the current round of abuses.
Your belief systems determine the brainwaves you hold, entrain with and reside in.
Those in beta brainwave patterns consider themself as having only one of three options, victim, predator or the confused innocent. By withholding the things the victim has to offer, they punish the other person, maintain the upper hand and become the predator. How sweet is that! There will always be energy feeding cords or electromagnetic strings of energy to siphon each other’s energy / light and thought forms, keeping them entrained together. That keeps ALL players, entrained and STUCK in an emotion or thought pattern of victimization and helplessness or the delusion that they are the winner who is fully able to hurt someone else.
By moving into higher brainwave states, you can see and perceive the self-destructive feedback loops, stuck energy and thought patterns going NOWHERE! It’s never about your experiences or how nasty and cruel you can be. IT IS ALWAYS, all about your perceptions. Your expectations, thoughts, and feelings that create the reality YOU CHOOSE to exist in.
The cosmic truth about POVERTY and DEMANDING is, to the degree you WITHHOLD YOUR energy and resources to be compassionate and responsible for the self, YOU create poverty for you and anyone dependent on you. When you unfairly claim the energies of another and squander it, you unbalance both of you. You create the stressfulness negativity that poverty and debt engender. Someone else CANNOT create FOR you what you want.
Your poverty manifests itself, when you are productive and FAIL to take your proper reward, energy or money in a suitable manner. Because you believe YOU are unworthy or you are “fake humble” or “pretend pious” or incapable of owning what you created.
Any withholds, secrets, unethical behaviors, or lies you carry are being brought to your conscious awareness by your soul conglomerate for you to NOTICE. You CANNOT transmute what you do not consciously know exists. Every soul essence on earth to move to a higher resonance must identify and transmute the darkness they created. When darkness is revealed and OWNED, one can more easily transmute it into a higher frequency. Third dimensional biology and your fourth dimensional astral body will transmute into a higher frequency of resonance when you master being compassionate with you, there is NO need to dominate or control another in the light of rapidly spinning quanta.