This mom was physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually abusive to her child because she could be. The child was small helpless and dependent on her for its very survival, which gifted mom with a means of venting all the anger she absorbed and multiplied in other realities where SHE had experienced physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuses by those in power over her.
For this story I am saying the child is a boy, but the child could be any sex to gather the wisdom from this story. The child was exceedingly wounded and felt betrayed and trusted NO ONE, not even his own judgement as a child and as an adult.
Most females he was attracted to carried the same resonance or thought patterns of anger and revenge mom carried. Some were warm and compassionate but the boy / man was so tightly wrapped in his pain body that he was totally unable to trust or even perceive warmth and compassion coming from an another human, let alone accept it. Mom faked warmth and compassion, to trick her child once again into trusting her, so she could belittle and make fun of him. Crushing his soul made her feel safe for a short time until she did it again.
The mom and the boy were both so wounded they lived in their pain body most of the time, even as adults. When you experience your existence as painful, or you as victimized, you are unable to connect with or feel higher vibrational thoughts and sensations, like love and compassion. Victims and wounded people limit their feelings and senses to various varieties of suffering. They look for and wait for the next time they will be set-up, once again. So what they emanate energetically is waiting for suffering and actually attract their suffering to them. Then they entrain energetically with the pain and loneliness because it is familiar and they understand it. There is always a predator willing to victimize you. You never need to wait long.
The reality for this man was that, all women were like mom, mean spirited and evil, only nice to trick you once again. He was unable to perceive or believe that true kindness and compassion existed. Love and compassion were too high a resonance for him to understand or accept about himself or from others.
He wanted to heal or fix this wound so badly, and make his mom capable of loving him so much, he made his life’s work healing woman and children. No matter how many women and children he healed it NEVER healed him or mom.
You ask, “Why did this child incarnate into a relationship with such an evil one?”
The answer, They had matching resonances and karma or energy to rebalance with each other. OR Paybacks are a bitch! What you emanate you attract and entrain with. This phenomena is explained by the quantum laws of attraction and entrainment of like frequencies. Most everyone understands the above dynamics BUT what ALSO needs to be understood and honored is the law of allowing.
Quantum law of ALLOWING grants individuals the right to have their own reality and resonance. To BE and DO whatever they choose. VIOLATING the RIGHTS and CHOICES of OTHERS or DESTROYING any part of the collective environment, drops you out of compassion and into a lower gray resonance, the quarantined dark bandwidth or 3rd and lower 4th dimension.
The resonance of VICTIM, PREDATOR and CONFUSED INNOCENT thought patterns, all three thought patterns ARE states of consciousness, that reside in the same slow low quantum spin and resonance that lacks compassion for the self, others and all sentient life, like the planet
Sometime in mom’s and the child’s hundreds of incarnations they violated the law of allowing many times and probably with each other. Ideally the man NEEDS to assume in previous incarnations he was as nasty as his mom was to him. Believing and owning that the score is even or settled, is the one way to RELEASE WOUNDS and start trusting yourself again.
As long as you live in your wounds or remain depressed, addicted or dissociated and fail to trust your own judgement, your resonance will NOT be high enough to hold much light or compassion for yourself. You certainly WILL NOT be able to accept compassion and trust from another UNTIL you release your wounds and suffering. Remaining wounded, holds you STUCK in past time UNABLE to heal or move into present time and the current compassionate reality that is here and now.
Mom wanted to FORCE her son to carry her pain and suffering.
The child wanted to force mom to be compassionate.
Allowing means you STOP trying to get others to adopt your reality, beliefs, and carrying your pain and suffering. Allowing means you LEAVE your feedback loop of victim, predator and confused innocent. You stop going to war to keep and protect the STUFF those on the top of the pyramid have taken from those on the bottom of the pyramid. You stop forcing and start embracing compassion for YOU.
Quantum principle of GRACE would indicate there was judgment in the light bandwidth and there isn’t. Quanta just ARE. You create your own grace with your compassionate point of perception and thought patterns.
You are your creator and the giver of grace for you!
In higher brainwave states, injuries and wounds you have sustained or caused can be healed or released from within you. Lies you have followed, mistakes you have made and hardships you have endured. YOU can decide that feedback loop is completed and YOU can release the emotional charge, you created, carried and shared with others.
Dr. Bruce Harold Lipton, an American developmental biologist is best known for promoting the idea that people have a greater impact on their health than genetic research has previously determined. Dr. Lipton says your brain decides which chemistry is to be released in your body. Whatever is pictured in your mind, the body creates the chemistry that goes along with your mental picture. Change your mind or consciousness and your chemistry changes that in turn changes your biology. Negative beliefs disempower us, are limiting and self-sabotaging that cause every illness on the planet. Positive beliefs and lifestyles change our chemistry and heal us.
Dr. Lipton discovered our DNA scans our environment for frequencies that match our beliefs. Then our DNA changes its structure to match what we choose to perceive, own and resonate with.
TRANSMUTATION is about the movement into higher frequencies of THOUGHT, which are only giving and receiving compassion. The human soul conglomerate or stream of of consciousness has accurate knowledge of all the incarnations you have had on Gaia, Venus, Mars, and any other planets or stars you have experienced or “hung out on” or in.Transmutation is shifting into higher frequencies of compassionate realities. You go within you, to use your imagination and higher brainwave states, to increase your perceptions and knowledge of what is true by releasing all your drama, negativity, sadness, anger, blame and judgment.
Transmutation of your physical DNA and Spiritual DNA.
The one transmuting needs to be CONSCIOUSLY aware of what they did / experienced and own it as their own. You can’t transmute for others or family members. You transmute for YOU ALONE and that allows family members their freewill (earth is a freewill planet) to join your transmutation or NOT. They each need to consciously choose for the self.