Sexual activity happening at a higher resonance can be referred to as spiritual sexual activity and may occur without a partner, without any physical touch or stimulation, after all 90% of sexual activity happens in what your thoughts are all about and what your intent is. Humans even have sexual activity with upper fourth dimensional soul essences that may or may not have biology. Sexual sensations are a magnifier of your thought patterns and intent.
BUT before we get all “sexually spiritual,” consider the following:
Worldwide the most prevalent addiction is sexual addictions and perversions.
Over 80% of the worldwide population, were abused, and / or traumatized, verbally, physically and sexually as children. So many adults feel “entitled” to do as they wish with a child because they CAN’T protect themself. When an infant’s environment is one of fear, anger, sexuality, abuse and neglect that energy is owned by the infant and the “adult child” NEVER really feels safe without some serious therapy.
Theta brainwaves are normal in children up to 13 years of age and abnormal in adults who are in an awake state. Abuse and trauma shatter the inner peace, that theta brainwaves provide for children. Trauma or abuse is VERY jarring to the child creating an impact 100 times more intense, then it would on an adult, having the same experience. The child can and does read the dark thoughts of their predator more proficiently than adults would in the same situation. The thoughts the child reads, can be even more upsetting than the predator’s actions. The biology of the child becomes “the enemy” to the child, and the prison the predator can and does control.
Considering the statistics, the odds are you and your partner would have experienced abuse as children and any of those issues would need to be addressed and taken into consideration before your sexual activity might become joyous. Humans have found a wide variety of ways and reasons to fondle their own gonads. For example, to be sure they are still there and still feel good or painful in some cases. Gonad fondling, is used to reduce stress. It’s a good focus changer when you want to sleep, you move your awareness from thinking too feeling and sensing. And some parents and adults think it’s a good way to start a calm peaceful day. I have had a parent tell me her child misbehaved in school because she didn’t have time to “beat him off” that morning.
Denying your sexuality or any denial for that matter, creates energy blockages or pockets of density in the biology, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies of your aura. Denial leads to covert thoughts and behaviors, addictions and perversions. Engaging in any sexual activity in any reality, without consent from all parties is still rape. Astral sexually transmitted disease or viruses in lower vibrations are lust, control, force and addiction. Twisting, forcing and using sexual activity as a weapon to control others, is against the quantum law of allowing.
Quantum law of ALLOWING grants individuals, especially children, the right to have their own reality and resonance. To BE and DO whatever they choose. VIOLATING the RIGHTS and CHOICES of OTHERS or DESTROYING any part of the collective environment, drops you out of compassion and into a lower gray resonance of victim, predator and confused innocent.
Humans have fondled their gonads for a lot of different reasons but not so often for the higher resonances of spiritual sexual activity and possibly healing. All the issues mentioned above need addressing first. You need to be compassionate with you first, and then others. You need to feel safe, calm, trust those around you and have no hidden agendas or “quid pro quo” plans.
Joyful sexual interactions start in 4D dropping down to 3D and generally experienced in both dimensions simultaneously. That happens the same way the creative process works and new ideas and relationships happen.
Quantum law of PENETRATION or deep listening or mindfulness says that anything that is seen with great quality of attention and knowing creates compassion and trust.
The very act of penetration or deep listening or mindfulness OPENS UP your electromagnetic energy field to exchange each other’s thoughts and the resonance the thought has, creating a synergy between you. Engaging this way CHANGES both of your energy signatures, creating a third signature during the time you are engaged with each other in quantum entanglement.
Taking a chunk of time to focus and be mindful, of your, and each other’s mental and emotional state is a way to start a joyful interaction of sexuality. Having compassion, kindness and concern for each other. First encounters sexually, tend to make you more alert than you would normally be with a partner and situation you know well. There is always a concern for your safety physically and emotionally.
Dark Ones opening up their electromagnetic energy field to each OTHER frequently results in looking for ways to use or abuse each other. “Dark on dark” LACKS, sincerity, they penetrate NOTHING. Dark exchanges, avoid MORAL culpability. They mimic the mechanics of an interaction without feeling or living it. When you can’t perceive your own darkness YOU cannot perceive the darkness and illusions in other’s thoughts and resonance. Anyone trying to make you feel ashamed about sex is not aligned with their physical and spiritual growth and is most likely a Dark One, don’t play with them.
Healthy compassionate sexual activity benefits the human’s physical, emotional, and mental health. Loving communion, enhances bonding, spiritual union, supports creativity and experiencing the self as pure energy, in union with a divine source. When spiritual sex is consciously practiced, there is a quality of “mindfulness,” which is heightened awareness and expanded consciousness.