means, secret and frequently illegal cooperation or conspiracy, especially in order to CHEAT or DECEIVE the self and others. For example, adults collude against their children to use and abuse them. Adults abused as children, that become parents or have access to infants and children, train or condition these children to accept physical abuse claiming its “normal” and they are “toughening up” the child. Emotionally the adult is wounded and “misery loves company” so they wound children.
Worldwide the most prevalent addiction is sexual addiction. Adults use children to maintain their addiction. Deep down they feel nothing; they are numb, feel powerless and hopeless to change the self and desire revenge.
Unless the adult has had therapy or been educated to think and act differently, the same abusive patterns get handed down from parent to child, generation after generation. The nastier patterns are kept secret because everyone colludes to keep them a secret because they consciously KNOW they are nasty and cruel. Just as some of our leaders and their “slaves,” have colluded with each other, against immigrants and found ways to access and torment the immigrants in the same manner children get tormented because they are powerless.
Females and children have received abuse, when older females in collusion with males, feel “entitled” to use others to please them and do their bidding. The younger generation is conditioned and trained to accept abuse as part of their “lot in life.” Older females in collusion with males and other adults, fail over and over again to protect and cherish the young. Men and women use children as slaves, servants and surrogate spouses to satisfy the self emotionally, sexually and physically. These often cruel insensitive behaviors have been institutionalized in religious beliefs, marital contracts and cultural traditions.
You can consciously choose to leave or break this feedback loop for you and your children. To avoid receiving abuse, one needs to stand in their truth, stay conscious and compassionate and walk away. Expose the darkness into the light when you can.
In the light entangled quantum particles and human consciousness, all know what the other quanta in the quantum field know and sense. Within the quantum field there is no time or space or place or unknowns or secrets. Dark Ones collude with each other and against each other using secrets, lies and disinformation to control, torment, manipulate and “set up” each other. Is that the reality you want to create and maintain for the self and those you claim to care about?