is manufactured conflict designed to deflect and distract one from going within to experience the still calmness and reflection of deep communion with your soul. Biologically, we are hardwired to love the novelty, stimulation, and social information that a constant feedback loop of drama provides. BUT the situations are often manipulated to make it appear as if one is totally justified in getting all twisted and reactive in a very dramatic fashion. Getting violent, destroying property, hurting people physically, emotionally and psychically with no productive outcome.
Drama creates the illusion that something profound or productive might happen. BUT it’s generally “over the top” nutty, irrational, repetitive nastiness without a constructive outcome. There is no resolution, growth or understanding, which takes place. Drama has no real conversation, no deep listening and it lacks authenticity.
DRAMA is UNPROCESSED PAIN being vented or free-floating anxiety and generally unconscious wounds that need conscious awareness in order to heal. Pain you need to be consciously aware of, to own it, so you can heal it. When you or someone else is projecting their pain onto another, they generally do that because they feel safe enough to do that. Consciously or unconsciously they are trying to heal their wounds. Heal the dysfunctional patterns of thought; they developed in childhood and other realities with their dark dysfunctional family unit.
Drama is doing the same thing over and over, getting the same result.
Without compassion, YOU keep recreating endless dramas.
WITH compassion you go within and think about what is true. Isolate and define exactly what you feel. Your soul will be very helpful when you ask. Know what is true and then decide what path YOU want to take.
DO NOT INCLUDE things others need to do for you! Your path is for you and your soul alone. You need to be your hero and rescue you.
Remember, on the quantum level two or more soul essences are attracted together and soul-to-soul agreements are made to create the potential to heal each other. OR what happens more frequently, is that they re-experience the same old dysfunctional patterns they have been recreating over and over again with the same result. They go for the drama instead of the wisdom, resolution and healing.
To attract a higher resonance YOU must emanate a higher resonance. To emanate a higher resonance, you need to understand, own and heal your wounds or pain, which will increase your resonance.
The culture humanity was raised in taught us that we needed to get our needs and wants met by others. That is not truth; humans have been lied to and misdirected. Humans have been trained to ACT OUT or ACT IN being self destructive, when they feel ignored, not appreciated or taken advantage of.
Being responsible for yourself, giving you the attention you need, the appreciating you want and not abusing the self is YOUR job. You need to be the one to give you what you need and want. The one that needs to have compassion and unconditional love for you is YOU! When you are compassionate with you, you will attract and entrain with those that are compassionate with them self. When you are compassionate with you, you demonstrate how to be calm and peaceful. How to rationally work on resolving your conflicts with you and each other.
Another human, especially a Dark One cannot and will never be able to give you what you want or need. Going within and communing with your soul conglomerate WILL guide, support and comfort you.