of any variety, consider themselves victims because they refuse to accept WHAT IS true. They “passive aggressively” DEMAND and are waiting for reality to conform to their wishes and wants. Until they get what they demand, all around them experience their tantrums, stubbornness, and irrational extreme denial. The hoarder has turned their perceived victimization, into their RIGHT to be the predator that judges and punishes all those close to them. Their denial of the truth victimizes all that engage with them. They “suck the life out of what they hoard.” It’s their security blanket, to prove they have control over something living or inanimate objects. They suffer from low self esteem and a sense of powerlessness. They live in their wounds.
Clutter and hoarding in your emotional body would be festering wounds, pain and suffering the hoarder clings to, feeds from and keeps dragging the past wound into present time to live in, to experience over and over again. They are self absorbed unable and unwilling to notice the suffering they inflict on everyone else. These dark thought patterns of unresolved issues become crystallized capsules of stuck energy.