has a very low slow resonance of YOU deciding you have been victimized. HAVE you been denied something you must have? Is someone or something else getting what YOU think you should be getting? Is happiness someone being jealous or envying you? No matter how loudly you whine, pout, complain, guilt or force the other to give it to you. When you do manage to get what you THINK you need or want. It is never enough, or long lasting enough or exactly how you like it.
What you create for the self is the only thing that satisfies and carries a high enough resonance to be compassionate. No one told you, that your joy and happiness is found within you? Not created by another as a GIFT to you. You need to create and sustain your own compassion and joy, by accepting and loving you without conditions.