is not in alignment with ALLOWING. The neediness and demands you make on another means you are not being responsible for you! You most likely are operating under the delusion that another can MAKE you have a strong emotion or fill a need only YOU can fill for you. When you observe,
“The person you want something from, is very resistant.”
Have you considered that you are asking for something they CAN’T, won’t or do not want to give you? Can you understand and accept the need to allow others their own path without you using them in anyway to satisfy your neediness, frustration, anger or pathology?
Intimate relationships bring out your DEEPEST childhood wounds and support the MYTH that your needs, should be filled by another. How much easier is it to give you what you need instead of tricking another into thinking they can give you what you lack. It never works; others can’t make you better or happy. Others can share knowledge, if they have it. Others can be supportive and guide you if they can. ULTIMATELY you need to create what you want for you.
Healing your wounds is the fastest way to get what you need and want. ALLOW yourself and others the path of their choice WITHOUT your neediness or interference and demands on them.