ones are unwilling to be responsible for the self. Unwilling to move in new directions and unwilling to change their views about what is valuable to them. The confused, accept one set of lies and misdirection’s and are too scared and stubborn to consider other viable options. So they distract themself with self-pity, dissociation, depression and addictions, waiting for things to match the lies they hold and own! Being in denial makes it easy to elect, follow and believe in another liar and their set of self-deceptions.
The confused parent, leader, relative or friend is dangerous to engage with because they fail to have anyone else’s emotional, social or intellectual needs on their radar or in their awareness. Their inner torment is acted out, on anyone that is too small, weak or absorbed in being a victim to get away from them. They refuse to absorb new information they are not interested in and they demand the reality they want.
You can’t reside in the light and be confused, insensitive unconscious or cruel. You can’t desire to be cared for AND be a sovereign being. You can’t “win” or be “better than” and believe in equality.