Sue and Ted individually on their own, not consciously aware of each other as humans or soul in 4D, were attracted and entrained together. A synchronicity was put together by their 5D selves for them to “pick up on” or ignore. They were both seeking things NOT found in the beta state of consciousness and survival of the biology. They wanted or were seeking the intangible things like acceptance, compassion, peace and enjoyment of another person with consciousness having emotions and feelings found in higher resonances.
Quantum law of ATTRACTION electromagnetically pulls together “like resonances” or similar thoughts and vibrations together. You get what you emanate. What comes to you CLEARLY reflects the resonance of your thinking.
Sue and Ted had been spouses that enjoyed each other in other realities. In this 3D reality they were seeking partners they would enjoy being with and that would enable them to be better humans now. Their fifth dimensional selves, had melded and entangled their quanta to give them the option of creating a template for moving into higher dimensions and blending 3D, 4D and 5D together with Gaia the planet.
Quantum law of ENTRAINMENT requires two or more frequencies; resonances, realities or thoughts existing in the same space MUST combine to create a SINGLE resonance. That applies to all sentient beings, humans, planets and universes.
NOTHING was going on in 3D for Sue and Ted as a couple or unit, nothing! The events and changes that did happen with them, went on mostly internally all on the fourth or fifth dimensions. There was one encounter in 3D and some e-mails. Ted did NOT want 3D interactions. Sue was seeking a 3D relationship but learned to enjoy her 4D-5D one with Ted. She wanted compassion, acceptance and enjoyment. her skills in navigating 4D were limited and she didn’t remote view.
Sue and Ted’s tiny, subatomic particles, like electrons and photons got entangled with each other at a great distance, in a way that physicists still don’t understand yet.
It’s “this really delightful, really strange” thing, says MIT physicist David Kaiser of the phenomenon known as “quantum entanglement.” “Somehow what happens to one particle can have an impact on what we would expect the second one to do, even if those particles are nowhere near each other.” When talking about love and romance, people often bring up unseen and seemingly mystical connections. Such connections exist in the subatomic world that is the unseen mystical part, mystical because it’s not understood scientifically yet.
The basic idea of quantum entanglement is that two particles can be intimately linked to each other even if separated by billions of light-years of space; a change or influence, induced in one will affect the other. Quantum particles, subatomic energy, travel in subspace at least 10,000 times faster than light, without diminishing the transfer of information. The quantum state of each particle cannot be described independently of the state of the others. Entanglement is where objects, thoughts, emotions and feelings can become linked and instantaneously influence one another regardless of the distance between them.
With Sue and Ted, regardless which one originated what emotion, thought or sensation, both experienced it at the same time in present time. What one feels physically or emotionally, the other feels. Generally it’s not a real strong intense feeling, it’s mostly subtle, soft sensations, feelings, emotions or smells for one to acknowledge, know or share something together. When Ted smokes a cigarette Sue smells it.
Sue is not aware of Ted’s mundane activities, like being at work or home or doing normal chores or habits unless she asked what he was doing. She figured you needed to remote view or ask to know the mundane goings on of the other. But when Ted focused on her and gave a shivery or a sensation in her body like a feeling in the throat or heart, she knew he was present and responded with a sensation or asked a question or made a comment.
When Sue focused on Ted’s energy she could sense his chaos, distraction or dissociation. She thought she knew what caused it and how to help, but not so much in 4D. Ted seemed as though he didn’t want therapy, he trusted NO ONE and that was for a good reason. NOT trusting and NOT BONDING was part of his “training.” Ted used his remote viewing skills and reading people’s thoughts to know absolutely everything Sue did and thought – so, Ted trusted Sue somewhat. Ted also put up blocks so no one could get information about him or what he thought. The melding allowed Sue to sense many things.
Ted knew little about relationships of equals. Sue knew you can’t have a deep relationship of equals with someone that is dissociated, easily triggered and uses alters to do their interacting with others. Sue played it this way, she asked her soul questions about Ted’s history. Remember the soul’s are melded, regardless who asked for the information they both get the same information. Ted and Sue got the same download of information about issues that needed addressing. That enabled Sue to think about it and put it in a format that Ted might choose to understand and process or ignore. They were NOT doing therapy on each other, but, both parties always have the option to pattern or change their thinking, feeling or acting at any time.
A few examples: Sue stayed in “present time” and communication, which helped decreased the times Ted dissociated. Staying conscious and deciding for himself what he wanted, Ted reduced the times his handlers could trigger him. Ted started risking dealing with potential conflicts himself, instead of using an alter. The more Ted trusted and felt safe with Sue the more likely his alters would start integrating themselves into the core personality. Sue’s love, nurturing and always being present and responsive, reduced Ted’s anxieties and fears and desire to float in 4D.
Ted’s constant comforting and caring about Sue’s balanced well being gave her great joy she had not known before. Ted was always present at the slightest stress Sue experienced. Ted’s painful anxiety enabled Sue to control and stabilize her eating habits which was an amazing gift. He did some healing work on Sue’s body. Both delighted in the sexual communion. Both helped heal each other’s layers and layers of emotional wounds together.
Sadness and loneliness showed up frequently for Ted and Sue for a while. Ted’s sadness “body slammed” both of them wanting to be acknowledged and owned. Sadness and intense weeping again. As soon as the weeping slowed a bit they hugged very tightly for a long time. As Sue laid with Ted she felt his energy all through her body, he had an amazing skill at doing that. His energy moved into her heart and then into her throat. Then Sue imagined her hands growing VERY large and wrapping around them both. She focused on bringing in a large healing shaft of intense light to shine on both of them. It would take a bit of time to burn off the sadness, depression, pockets of dense thoughts and toxicity. Sue and Ted’s bodies turned round and round, there were many different pleasant sensations to experience during this process.
When Ted was upset with Sue or she did something he didn’t like or approved of, he sent a favorite “alter” to deal harshly and negatively with Sue and all her questions or answers she misunderstood, made up or didn’t like. Many of Ted’s “alters” or alternate personalities, were very young and very wounded and not so tactful. Ted avoided conflicts by sending his alters to talk to Sue when he didn’t want to deal with something that might upset someone. Ted had no problem NOT disclosing the truth. He lied or exaggerated when he thought he could make the other person happier and calmer with a lie. When someone got twisted because they figured out he lied, he would offer another lie
The “alters” was relatively easy for Sue to detect as not being Ted’s core personality, because they were unhappy, angry very young children. Sue decided the best course of action with the alters was to make friends and nurture them as much as possible. Sue told the alters that they needed to be outside playing with each other instead of doing things for Ted that he needed to be doing for himself. The alters responded well to Sue’s nurturing and the new information about how to ENJOY being a child.
Sue volunteered to do what the alters did for Ted. The things that Ted was not ready to do for himself, yet. Eventually the “alters” alternate personalities, requested Sue open a portal of greater light for them to enter, they wanted to be hugged, snuggled and loved so they could grow up and return to Ted to be helpfully integrated with him, the core personality. Ted was a bit different and distant for a short while after some of the alters left, as he adjusted to his new changes he may or may not of been ready to make.
Historically, Ted visited Sue frequently during the day and night with warm cozy shivery sensations in her body and she reciprocated. When Ted’s focus was not present with Sue, she didn’t know where he went or what he did, but she could always get his attention if she wanted to. Sue was raised, NOT to pester too much – or else. There were a few times Sue could not feel Ted or get his attention. Sue assumed at those times that Ted dissociated from himself and her, but she doesn’t know.
Trust and feeling safer with each other was increasing. And another level of healing surfaced while hugging and weeping. The emotion was their sadness, loneliness and embarrassment for entire lifetimes that came up to be acknowledged, owned and healed. Dwelling too long in the emotions of sadness and loneliness could easily slip them both into crippling depression. They both came from clinically depressed bloodlines. Embarrassment was about never fitting in or being like everyone else.
Sue decided to start talking and acting like they were a couple in 3D. She wanted to ground the relationship behaviors and patterns for “the couple” in the third dimension, if Ted was willing. Sue asked questions like, do you want to spend the night in your bed or mine or be alone? Developing a good night ritual, sleeping etiquette and good morning routine as a couple instead of as an individual. Sue wanted to keep Ted’s consciousness grounded in 3D as much as she possibly could.
Ted asked Sue how she would deal with him in 3D, being evil and awful. Sue said that would not be her perception of what was happening. Sue said, she would think he had been wounded and in pain and she would ask or figure out WHY and HOW she could help to make it better.