One night Sue and Ted had the same dream at the same time that they created together, because they were melded. Each created different parts of the dream to communicate feelings they had about each other using pictures and a few words.
A beautiful white rabbit was laying on its back and someone was pulling it apart. First one leg and then the next, when suddenly they realized it was alive. They were horrified about what they did to the living rabbit, and tried to fix the rabbit and what they had done to it.
If it’s not obvious to you that Sue was giving Ted the perception that she was pulling him apart, let’s analyze the dream. Know that rabbits are prey animals, they are low on the food chain and need different reactions and behaviors to survive. Rabbits fear another creature, like a hawk, might pluck them up to eat them. Rabbits are comfortable and feel safer in their “nest” quiet and hidden. Being picked up, can be scary for even a pet rabbit. To gain your rabbit’s trust, wait for it to eventually come over to investigate you. Be sure not to force any actions that the rabbit doesn’t want and isn’t ready for.
Ted feels solid, safe and in control in the fourth dimensional nest Sue and Ted have at Sue’s home on the astral plane, BUT has serious doubts about how safe he would feel in physicality. Ted was letting Sue know how and why he felt as he does. Sue felt terrible about scaring Ted. That was the last thing she wanted to do. Sue’s love and caring for Ted runs deep and she didn’t want him to retreat from her. Sue is relatively comfortable in the third dimension and enjoys the physicality of it.
Actually the relationship between Sue and Ted would never have been able to start as a 3D relationship because of Ted’s fears and mistrust of himself and others and all his painful experiences in 3D. He would have been too fearful and scared to trust and enjoy it.
The MELDED, entangled quanta of Ted and Sue’s consciousness creates a third entity, THE RELATIONSHIP the two individual soul essences create together. Which includes all the subtle sensations, feelings and thoughts in and around both their biology’s. In higher resonances beyond the physical, this is how the soul or consciousness transfers, exchanges and develops information or knowingness between each other. Both sides benefit from their relationship of constructive purpose, great enjoyment and comfort. Melding allows for immediate and intense interaction with each other telepathically. It allows for an intimate exchange of thoughts, sensations or feelings consciously. The biology or containers or forms can and do in this case exist physically far apart.
The tricky part is who originated the thought or feeling and WHAT do you want to do about it? When and if the melding ends, the two original entities return to what they “have become” separately, as a result of the melded relationship. The melding would have changed both of their thought patterns and feelings individually.
Humans are more compassionate when they are “in love“ with each other. The invisible realm is using melding as one way to introduce humanity into living in higher dimensions without their physical form. Physicality is found only in the third dimension and that hologram is being dissolved currently.
Melding has happened to one tenth of one percent of the human population at this time, but maybe only three of the couples, are consciously aware of their melding. Sue and Ted’s relationship is one account of what it is like having a 4D relationship while also having a physical form in third dimension.
Sue decided to “hang back” more often in the relationship to allow Ted to take the initiative more frequently. She thought that would be a way for her to get to know Ted on a deeper level. Chances for him to open up to her more frequently. Ted didn’t seem to want to step into “the space of allowing” and direct it or own it, with his preferences. Allowing Ted space, actually seemed to make him a bit sad and withdrawn or possibly trigger a fear response.
That confused Sue until she reflected on Ted’s historical behaviors in all his relationship, professional and personal. Ted doesn’t trust anyone enough to let them know the inside of him. The Illuminati trains all their slaves NOT to trust anyone. When and if people trust and bond with another or others they never stay obedient enough, to carry out all the criminal acts they are triggered to carry out in a dissociated state for “The Family.”
Ted is in the end stages of severing his ties with “The Family’s” control and manipulation. BUT the fear and very engrained habit of not trusting anyone with the inside of him, is still very strong. Making Ted lonely, sad and fearful of stepping into “the space of allowing” directing and owning it, with his preferences. It is most likely he has never had the opportunity to know or explore what his preferences are. One needs to feel safe and trust the space they exist in, to be able to explore their personal preferences in an intimate relationship. Slaves main concern is generally about survival.
To avoid letting others know about the INSIDE of Ted, he lied to please, be trusted and accepted by others. Telling lies and giving misdirection is all part of Illuminist training. When an individual that lies and misdirects others, ALL the time, there is a good chance they do not know what the inside of them is all about either. Ted’s habit when interacting with others was to let THEM lead, direct, force or trigger him. Then when he felt his boundaries were violated TOO MUCH, he would upset himself, vent, complain, resist or bring up a nasty alternate personality to deal with the situation. That frequently made interactions unpleasant and harder to fix.
You most likely are wondering, why Sue was so invested romantically with Ted in this lifetime. Sue is operating on her subtle awareness and sensations, of all the other lifetimes she has had with Ted’s soul essence, when he was able and willing to expose how it was with the inside of him. The attachment was deep and strong and that is what keeps them both engaged and trying to get to and enjoy the inside of the Ted she knows. Sue would never stay engaged against Ted’s will. Ted lets Sue know daily and sometimes hourly that he wants her to keep trying to open them both up.
Sue’s belief is, that the daily conversations loving couples have with each other, about the days experiences, thoughts and feelings is how a couple deepens their relationship. How they get to know “how it is” with the inside of each other. That generates the warm closeness and acceptance they have for each other, exactly like they are, when they are open, honest and truthful.
Ted knows exactly what Sue thinks, feels and does, because he reads her thoughts, listens to her conversations with others, and remote views her. Sue only gets general impressions and bits and pieces of what goes on in Ted’s reality and guesses about the gaps. She talks aloud frequently and at length to Ted, but hears or guesses very little from him, only words or phrases now and again, not paragraphs. Sue asked Ted to please talk to her more. He either doesn’t say much or Sue doubts what she thinks she hears. Sue is working on mastering her confidence in telepathy.
FOURTH DIMENSIONAL sensory COMMUNICATION between Sue and Ted’s melded and entangled quanta from Sue’s point of perception, has grown and developed over the last nine months. Ted’s fear, nausea and anxiety in both their bellies was calmed after a few months. Breathing back and forth with each other and sending shivers through each other’s body calmed the belly pain. Then once in a while Sue got lower belly discomfort. She would ask Ted if he had a question or concern? He did and by this time Sue was hearing and sensing a bit more of what Ted said. Sue then took time to discuss it in detail, dispute misconceptions or false information or beliefs either one of them had.
Pain or discomfort in Sue’s pancreas area was concerns about still being loved, doubts or fears. Ted started to give a tug at the outside of Sue’s throat when he was going to say something, to get her attention to communicate a question or intent. Then he moved INTO her throat to give her a “heads up.”
When Ted wanted to express his love or concern for Sue, she got a tug at her heart, then he moved or stayed IN her heart for a few minutes or more to express love and support. Vibrating, feel shaky, wobbly, nervous or even delicate in the biology is generally an indication of processing and integrating new information and figuring out what to do with it.
Sue has always been generally aware of Ted’s awareness being focused on her by a warm shivery that runs up her right leg generally. After the first months Sue might get a warm cozy shivery, any place in her biology or an entire warm cozy shivery in the entire body. Sue also gets Autonomous Sensory Meridian Responses (ASMR), from Ted, this is a static-like or tingling sensation on the skin that typically begins on the scalp or neck and moves around the back of the neck, head and upper spine producing the sensation of a “low-grade euphoria” or having a head orgasm. A combination of positive feelings and a distinct static-like tingling sensation on the skin. Sue has also received full body orgasms or ASMR in that manner.
Of late Ted’s focused attention on Sue will suddenly increase her body heat significantly, first in her head and then in her whole body. Very recently Ted is giving a high pitched tinkling bell sound in Sue’s left ear, A 4D phone call? When he has something to say. When Ted has Sue’s attention he talks some to her. The high pitched tinkling bell sound is like the sound one gets from receiving downloads from the invisible realm. Sue and Ted both use sexual sensations to get each others attention, physical arousal and orgasms.